Simple Signs of Cheating

Could there be a girlfriend you don’t know about? Could you have a cheating spouse? Ever think she is seeing another man? We never want to think our spouses and lovers would cheat on us, but sometimes our eyes and our ears have to take control of our hearts and allow ourselves to recognize simple signs of cheating.

1. They never leave their cell phone lying around or take calls when you are around. I rate this one of the top simple signs of cheating. It’s rather obvious actually. Unless they are working for the secret service or some other secret squirrel-covert operation, they are probably talking to someone they don’t want you to know about.

2. You catch them in little lies all the time. If they are lying about the small things that really don’t matter, what else are they lying about? Unless they are a really good liar, they will eventually trip themselves. The shoe strings will come untied at some point; you just have to pay attention.

3. In the simplest of conversations they tell you that you ask too many questions; they have misgivings about giving you too much information. Usually because they are terrible at lying and don’t want to say the wrong thing to incriminate themselves.

4. They constantly and intentionally pick fights with you as an excuse to leave the house.

5. They spend way too much time on Twitter, Facebook, or MySpace. I am all for social networking in order to promote businesses and keep in touch with family and mutual friends, but if they are constantly chatting on one or more of these sites, it’s more than possible they are making contacts you wouldn’t be all too thrilled with.

6. They don’t want to share passwords to email, voicemail, and the like. If they say, “Not until we are married” (of course by then it’s too late…) or if you are married, they try to act like that is the one little piece of privacy they still have and you should respect that. What a crock. Either they have something to hide or they don’t. If you are in a serious relationship, living together, or if you’re married then there is no reason you shouldn’t share passwords.

7. They seem less interested in being intimate, spending time with you, or they seem emotionally shut off. Of course things do come up; stress at work, school, issues with outside family and friends. However, these are things couples talk about, they look to each other for comfort. If it appears your mate is more distant than usual for a lengthy period of time, they could be expressing symptoms of guilt.

So, what do you do if you see some signs of cheating and your gut is telling you something just isn’t right? You can’t just blurt out, “Is there someone else?” They are certainly not going to righteously admit it if there is. Now is the time to brush up on your investigative skills and learn How to Catch a Cheater

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