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You Forgot About Your Man?there is this guy i love. he has a girlfriend lives with his family.he was a caretaker 2 doors down. i started to talk to him and he was over everyday for lunch. he wasnt good about talking about his feelings. i said you like me dont you. maybe alot he said maybe.well he took his caretaker for a walk. and the man said i love you to me. and i said the same. forgot the guy i really care for was in front. he lost his head in extreme anger cussing at me to go away. i kept telling him how much i loved him. but he wouldnt forgive me. he was very depressed everyday untill yesterday. his last day. i heard him crying really hard. saying i cant believe she didnt say goodbye. is he in love with me.Kathy Dear Kathy, Hmm… I am a tad confused by what you have told me but I will do my best to pick it apart. First off it is difficult to understand which man you are asking is in love with you. So we will examine both, k? The first man who has girlfriend and lives with his family; you should not even be considering this let alone entertaining his needs! And he should definitely not be at your house having lunch with you and talking about any of his feelings. Are you a shrink? Does he come over and lay on your couch while you sit there with your note pad in hand and listen to him talk about all of his problems with his girlfriend? Where is his girlfriend while he is gallivanting around with you? This guy does not love you; he is fulfilling a temporary need that he is not getting with his girlfriend. And you forgot about your man “in front”? The one you really care for? Really?! This strikes me as very bizarre… not to mention I assume he found out that you were seeing the other guy and was extremely upset because you were fooling around on him behind his back. Who wouldn’t be pissed and lose their head? And what exactly do you mean by “his last day”? Did he move out; his last day of what? I still can not get over the fact that you forgot about your man! Regardless, he obviously cares about you. Does he love you? Honestly I don’t have enough information to answer that question. However, I wouldn’t blame the guy if he never spoke to you again. We don’t just forget about the people we care for only to turn around and take someone else’s man. I reiterate How in the hell do you forget about your man!? Whatever it is you have going on over there, it is time to get it together sister… Best of luck, it sounds like you need it… Leave Forgot About Your Man, Return to Relationship Problem Advice |
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